Are You With The Right Guy?

Almost 80 percent of the girls at a certain time think if they are with the right guy or not?

Dear ladies, you all are precious and each one of you deserves to be treated well. In this blog, you're going to learn to identify whether you're with a right guy (green flag) or the non deserving red flags.

Let's distinguish the traits of right and wrong guys:

The very first thing a guy can do for his lady is to respond her text or calls right away. Even if he is busy, he receives the call or messages and respond to make his lady know about what he is upto. So, if your man ignores your call or texts saying he is busy and making excuses then he is definitely a red flag.

Another sign of a red flag is that their actions and words never match. They can say they care but when you ask for something, they might not be available. Likewise, red flags never put you on their priority list. They can say Oh, you mean the world to me but never prioritise your needs and your happiness. When it comes to choose either you or anything they like, they are never going to choose you. 

Red flags always argue if you ask for their time and attention. If the argument turns into the fight, they will leave you crying and don't text back. Basically, they will ghost you for no reason. So, if you've started begging in a relationship then you're definitely with the wrong guy. 

And one more thing, if you ever complain about their behaviour towards you, they'll argue and repeat again as if they were unaware about the things that hurt you before. They'll hurt you again and again even if you beg or cry to fix things, they'll be okay for a day or two but they never change.

Dear girls, don't rush to get into a relationship. Meet the guy, know more about him, observe him carefully before putting your heart into someone. The right one will never make you cry, they are soft spoken, well behaved, a true gentleman, they are always with you in your good and bad times, even if you're upset they'll not go to bed until you feel okay, they feel as a responsible person being around you and they make your life a complete fairytale. 

The right one admires you, adores you. They will love you the way you are. They love you even when you are not putting any make up. When you're with the right guy, you glow from within. You are the first thing they think when they wake up and last thing before going to bed. They'll plan surprises, send you gifts, treat you like a princess and never make you feel bad about being into the relationship.

Sounds surreal but these guys do exist. Yes, you heard it right, there are good guys in the world, you just need to have some faith in God and have some patience until you find your Mr. perfect. 


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